Frequently asked questions from women:  WARNING!  You are leaving this blogsite for some of these links.  Most links are to articles from the parent blog ChristianNymphos.org

How can I spice things up?

Please visit the Foreplay, Creative Sexual Techniques, and Romantic Ideas categories for ideas that work with your personalities.  Ideas Include:

  • Using things like candlelight and music
  • Turning board games into sex games
  • Going on a date… without any undies on
  • Writing sexy stories
  • Stripping
  • Role playing
  • Sex in a new location


How can I increase my drive? How do I become more passionate?

How To Have a Sexual Awakening

Low Drive… Can You Help Me?

Correcting Wrong Thinking About Sex

Dear Spouse 100, Me 0

Not In the Mood For Love?

10 Ways To Embrace the Sexy Wife God Made You To Be

Health Issues and Sex


Am I messed up? I have such a high sex drive and my husband’s sex drive is so low? Isn’t he the one who is supposed to be clamoring all over me? I thought all men were sex crazed.

Help!!! High Sex Drive!!!!

Living With a Refuser

Negotiating Different Drives


What does God think about…


Oral Sex?

Anal Sex?

Sex outside of marriage?



How do I know what’s okay for our marriage?

How Do I Know What’s Okay?

Adding Spice:  Where To Draw The Line

What About Instructional Sex Videos?


Is erotica or sex toys the same as pornography?  What about watching porn together?  Do you have any articles devoted to porn use issues?

Erotica:  Is It Okay?

Sex Toys = Pornography?

What Do I Do About My Husband’s Porn Problem?

Shelley Lubben:  A Porn Star Set Free

Pornography:  The Spice That Destroys Sexual Taste Buds

What do the different acronyms mean on your blog?

  • PIV = Penis In Vagina
  • CN = Christian Nymphos
  • OS = Oral Sex
  • AS = Anal Sex
  • MB = Masturbation
  • DH = Dear Husband
  • DW = Dear Wife


4 thoughts on “FAQs

  1. My anniversary is today and this weekend we are going for as my DH calls it a sexy romp. Now it is gonna sound strange but I really want that beuty regimine that totally makes me feel confident for a whole weekend of sex. I admit it has been a long time for us…. any suggestion about what i can do… It is so strnge for me…. I would have to say I am a prude really… I need to change this…. Our maruage is not strong and I want to change this for him…. Please help!

  2. it’s awesome that you want to change it for him! it’s also great that he is calling it a sexy romp…that means he wants to be with YOU! He is looking forward to being with YOU, he finds YOU sexy. It’s hard to get that sometimes and as women, and hard to FEEL sexy. I don’t know exactly what you are asking…is it for something you can do for yourself to make you feeling confident and sexy? Take some time to pick out some new lingerie and perfume maybe? Maybe some new sexy dresses for the weekend. Take time shaving or waxy, using lotions, getting all cleaned up. haha. I know for me anyway, sometimes I just let the shaving of my legs go sometimes, and once I get them all smooth, I feel a bit better about how they look. Maybe look up, on here, a few new position you could try. that will probably excite him, which will probably effect you positively too! I don’t know if that is the kind of answer you were looking for, but I pray you have a fun and spicy weekend!

  3. Yes you did come with exactly what I mean! It is hard for to think of myself as sexy. I had told him I needed more time to prepare. Sometimes it seems that a husband can think we just turn on… But I can’t I need time. Time to prepare physically and Yes,… spiritually.

    Before I got saved I was involved in some >>> well… Not so Godly sexual behaviours. so when I got saved I shut down real hard. I trained myself not to think about sex… I think it became a habit to not listen or pay attention to sexual needs.

    Now I need to change… I know it will make my marriage stronger…. Please pray for me!

    By the way it was a beuatiful anniversary weekend!

  4. oh good! I’ve been wondering! As for the past issues, I can totally relate. I also was involved in sexual sin before marriage and I think the enemy likes to use that against us when we finally do get married. The saying goes, “Before you get married the enemy does everything to get you to have sex, and when you get married he does everything to get you to NOT have sex.” I just recently, in the last year or so, with the help of information on this blog, have seriously dealt with that and with God’s help, have stepped full force into the learning-and-willing-to-be-confident-and-sexy wife. I will say a prayer for you that God will really help you, and your husband. Opening the lines of communication w/ hubby can help you both thru the process. Plus, it’s FUN. 🙂

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