I was so glad to happen upon an article called Oral Blessings as I was doing some online reading today. This was a very helpful and useful article! I know that oral sex is something that my husband really loves…. not only because it feels good, but he is a visual person, so he likes the view….. I have to admit, even though I have contributed to blogs like this one and Christian Nymphos for over 5 years, I do still have hang ups over oral sex. I found in this article, it hits on one of my biggest hang ups…. the gag reflex.
The article gives you some great information on how to start if you haven’t or if you have hang ups, how to get yourself into the mindset that it is a blessing for him, and a very giving thing to do for him. It also has sections on other common hangups, such as the taste of semen, his hair down there, the other areas of the body that are closest to that area, and the owie factor (like jaw pain) . I found it to be a very good read, and I am bookmarking it for future reference.
Who knows… maybe I should start practicing while he is in the room…. where are those popsicles. Not only would it be erotic for him, but he will know that I am working on the issues that I have. 🙂
What hang ups do you have? How have you overcome them? Are you willing to overcome them to bless him?