My DH and I will have been married a year at the end of July. I got pregnant last October but had a miscarriage after on New Years Eve, with a D&C on New Years Day. Needless to say its puts a tough strain on our marriage, we were both really torn up about it. To compound the issue my hormones have gone completely nuts. The Premenstrual dysphoric disorder that I had as a teenager came back with a roar, which makes me extremely exhausted, irritable, agitated, and emotional. We have been unable to get pregnant for the last 6 months. One of the worst symptoms though is my sex drive or complete lack of it.
Last week my husband asked, with tears and fear in his eyes, if I still loved him or if we were just roommates. I felt awful about it. I don’t know what to do though. I’m trying to get the hormone problem fixed with the help of a fertility specialist. I’ve tried masturbating and I’ve tried having sex every day with my DH. Nothing helps. I can’t even get aroused. If I do its only slightly and I very rarely orgasm and definitely not one worth writing home about. I don’t know what to do. I feel terrible about my husband wondering if I still love him and think he is attractive and I sure do!
PLEASE HELP US!
This is such a hard situation. I am so sorry for your loss. I am going to leave this for readers. I have never had a miscarriage, so I cannot even begin to understand the devastation this has caused both of you in losing your child. I am praying for you both. I can tell you that God can heal this. What does your doctor say? Are you talking to anyone about the miscarriage?