I love hearing my husband tell me all the sexual things he wants to do to me. Reading about the sexual things he wants to do to me is a very close second. I am a very visual person and when he sets the scenarios through his writing I am at that place and time. I love it!! You can start by writing a paragraph and then take turns expounding on that thought. It can be a real life event that has already happened or think up a brand new, never been done encounter. When my husband goes away on business he will sometimes place one of these stories in a spot where I will just happen to come across them. He leaves them in my bed, in an email, on my computer stand or in my car. Cuddling up with one of his letters sometimes leads to a special phone call but that is another topic.
What are the benefits of writing letters? These letters are a great way to ‘experience’ something that you never would in real life. You can also pretend to be something that you are not. I’ll give you an example. I truly dislike flying. How those pretty, shiny, heavy, shark shaped things stay in the air is beyond me. I will go on airplanes but I do a lot of praying beforehand. In my letters I can be a flight attendant or even a pilot if I wanted to be. It also allows you to talk about a thought or fantasy that you may be embarrassed to bring up face to face. If there is something you want to try but too shy to bring up this may open the door for discussion.
The first time I did send my husband an erotic note he was kind of beside himself. I think he was overwhelmed. If you are thinking that yours may get overwhelmed then just send a short, steamy text message to his phone and see how he reacts. Even a short note describing what you loved about your last encounter may be a way to ease into it. Who knows, this new erotic letter could be your next fantasy come true!!!