As I was reading on my personal Facebook page today, I came upon an article on the Marriage Bed page that I thought was very good.

http://www.redeemingmarriages.com/learning-to-accept-your-spouse/

This article was so good.  It reminded me of what DH and I used to say about why we were so attracted to each other when we were dating… “I feel like I don’t have to pretend to be someone else…I can just be myself”.   That is so important to a marriage!   I agree with Janet in this post.  I would never want my husband to feel torn down because I didn’t like the man that God created in him.   Clothing….all superficial.  My DH doesn’t have much choice.   He’s very tall, and for some reason, designers think that men that are tall only wear dorky clothing styles.   He is very conscious of not drawing attention to himself…his height already does that (How tall are you?  Do you play basketball?)   I would never assume to tell him what to wear, what to eat…. “We all want to be accepted for who we are in all our glory”  God created us in His image, and each of us is unique the way God created us.

This was a great read.  I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.