Yes I just made up that acronym. It stands for something that’s been on my mind lately and I figured I’d share it with all of you.
I can’t remember the last time that my husband and I had sex so passionately that I saw stars. You know, that raw animal like sex. That “Rip Your Clothes Off Sex!” I remember when we were first married (many years ago), how he’d take me up against the wall after coming home from dinner out, or even on the hood of the hood of the car because we just couldn’t wait to get into the house. Clothes would go flying off in every which direction and afterwards we’d both be panting together as we waited for the endorphins to calm down once again.
It’s been a very cold winter where we live, and the other night my husband mentioned how our sex life had become so predictable lately. One of us will ask if the other is interested, and if it’s agreed upon then we both make a mad dash to the bedroom where we disrobe and jump under the covers, teeth chattering, trying to use our body heat to warm us up before we can even think about making love. When my husband mentioned this to me I couldn’t help but laugh. He’s SO RIGHT!
So now I’m longing for some type of change. Spring is just around the corner and with it will hopefully come some more playful and passionate romps! I want to surprise my husband with some RYCOS at some point when he’s least expecting it. I think it will be good for the soul. We’ve just gotten into a predictable rut and I’m so ready to break out of it! I think that part of the greatness of it before was the spontaneity of it. So I’m not too sure how it will be trying to PLAN it, but I’m willing to try. Anyway, if winter has put you into a rut as well, then maybe you should think about planning your own RYCOS moment with your husband too. COME ON SPRING!
I can definitely identify with you on this one, but blessed for us (not lucky ;)) I at least have a one up, because my husband is deployed, we have no other choice but to have some R.Y.C.O.S when he gets back here! However, after the “honeymoon phase” ends, again, I too am going to be looking into things that will spice up our sex and keep it from becoming predictable! Any ideas ladies…? Happy discovering to all of you who are on a similar journey 😉 I pray you all are blessed and may our Lord guide you and keep you all!
I have just found your blog! I am so excited! You all are amazing writers and I am thrilled to have found a community of Christian women willing to talk about these topics! Thank you!
Welcome to the site! Glad that you found it!
This gave me a GREAT idea! I have been searching for some new lingerie to surprise my hubby after being gone for a while. It’s all so expensive and I’m unsure of fitting and I like to FEEL the material before I buy (but a trip to the store isn’t happening with 3 kiddos at home). So this sparked my creativity! I have a HUGE pile of clothes to throw or give away and I decided to “repurpose” some of those instead!!! I took a bra that was still pretty but the cups are too small and the band is too tight and I cut the cups apart and added a ribbon tied in a bow. more room to breathe AND it unties with one little tug in the front!! whoo-hoo! I feel brilliant! I also have pj pants that shrunk =( gunna turn those into some smoking hot booty shorts! Baggy ts? gunna cut those up in some fabulous peek-a-boo patterns to go with my new shorts! And an awkward length church skirt is getting a naughty short hem. Why not? I was getting rid of them away anywho!