Yes I just made up that acronym. It stands for something that’s been on my mind lately and I figured I’d share it with all of you.
I can’t remember the last time that my husband and I had sex so passionately that I saw stars. You know, that raw animal like sex. That “Rip Your Clothes Off Sex!” I remember when we were first married (many years ago), how he’d take me up against the wall after coming home from dinner out, or even on the hood of the hood of the car because we just couldn’t wait to get into the house. Clothes would go flying off in every which direction and afterwards we’d both be panting together as we waited for the endorphins to calm down once again.
It’s been a very cold winter where we live, and the other night my husband mentioned how our sex life had become so predictable lately. One of us will ask if the other is interested, and if it’s agreed upon then we both make a mad dash to the bedroom where we disrobe and jump under the covers, teeth chattering, trying to use our body heat to warm us up before we can even think about making love. When my husband mentioned this to me I couldn’t help but laugh. He’s SO RIGHT!
So now I’m longing for some type of change. Spring is just around the corner and with it will hopefully come some more playful and passionate romps! I want to surprise my husband with some RYCOS at some point when he’s least expecting it. I think it will be good for the soul. We’ve just gotten into a predictable rut and I’m so ready to break out of it! I think that part of the greatness of it before was the spontaneity of it. So I’m not too sure how it will be trying to PLAN it, but I’m willing to try. Anyway, if winter has put you into a rut as well, then maybe you should think about planning your own RYCOS moment with your husband too. COME ON SPRING!