This weeks featured sex position is “Spoons”… and I’m not talking about the popular card game that some of us play at family get together’s! But, I guess if you want to play that game in bed, then go for it! Instead, let’s focus on the sex position.
- You lie on your side.
- Your husband lies behind you, mimicking your body position.
Now, you are spooning. When we spoon with our spouse, there is nothing that can get in between us, which makes this position quite intimate. Your husband may choose to put his bottom arm (the arm on the bed) underneath your neck, so that he can reach around and caress your body. His top arm is free also, so he can navigate his way over your curves and it’s an opportune time for him to stimulate your clitoris manually. This position also gives him direct access to your neck, back and ears if you like it when he gets these sometimes neglected areas. And he can directly whisper sweet nothings into your ear! And let’s not forget your toosh! Your husband will have unbridled access to your behind.
So, what can you do? Both of your arms and hands are free so you will be able to assist your husband. Perhaps you can put your hands on top of his so you can follow his movements as he travels around your body. And you can always take matters into your own hands and stimulate your breasts and clitoris. You will be able to kiss, but you will have to break the position slightly to crane your neck so you can meet his lips. You can also use your top arm to reach behind you and grab hold to anything that you can, like his penis, his back or the back of his head.
When both of you are ready, remain in this position and have your husband enter you from behind.
I’ll leave you with the song that always runs through my head when I think of this position.
By the light, of the silvery moon,I want to spoon,To my honey I’ll croon love’s tune.Honey moon, keep a-shinin’ in June.Your silv’ry beams will bring love’s dreams,We’ll be cuddlin’ soon,By the silvery moon.
Mmmm, sounds delightful. I’m not sure we’ve ever done this. Have to try it soon!
entering from behind seems to defy geometry, I assume you are talking about vaginal entry. how do you do it? we’ve tried a few times, but it doesn’t seem to work.
It will work better for some than for others…. It’s not highly successful for us either.
I read in a book that the man gets his leverage by holding the lady close. Also, spoons is meant to be done at a slower pace, seeing movement is more limited (than say with missionary).
This is one of our favorite snuggle positions. One thing I like to do is slowly wiggle my bum side to side rubbing it against DH penis. This always turns him on and it almost always ends up in intercourse. I have to lean forward for him to enter me though. I think that position is called spork?