This weeks featured sex position is “Spoons”… and I’m not talking about the popular card game that some of us play at family get together’s! But, I guess if you want to play that game in bed, then go for it! Instead, let’s focus on the sex position.
- You lie on your side.
- Your husband lies behind you, mimicking your body position.
Now, you are spooning. When we spoon with our spouse, there is nothing that can get in between us, which makes this position quite intimate. Your husband may choose to put his bottom arm (the arm on the bed) underneath your neck, so that he can reach around and caress your body. His top arm is free also, so he can navigate his way over your curves and it’s an opportune time for him to stimulate your clitoris manually. This position also gives him direct access to your neck, back and ears if you like it when he gets these sometimes neglected areas. And he can directly whisper sweet nothings into your ear! And let’s not forget your toosh! Your husband will have unbridled access to your behind.
So, what can you do? Both of your arms and hands are free so you will be able to assist your husband. Perhaps you can put your hands on top of his so you can follow his movements as he travels around your body. And you can always take matters into your own hands and stimulate your breasts and clitoris. You will be able to kiss, but you will have to break the position slightly to crane your neck so you can meet his lips. You can also use your top arm to reach behind you and grab hold to anything that you can, like his penis, his back or the back of his head.
When both of you are ready, remain in this position and have your husband enter you from behind.
I’ll leave you with the song that always runs through my head when I think of this position.
By the light, of the silvery moon,I want to spoon,To my honey I’ll croon love’s tune.Honey moon, keep a-shinin’ in June.Your silv’ry beams will bring love’s dreams,We’ll be cuddlin’ soon,By the silvery moon.