Archive | September 2012

POTW: The Scissors

One of our favorite positions is one that we call “Scissors.” I’ll tell you why dh and I like it so much, then I’ll describe it so that you can figure out how to do it, in case you’ve never tried it. I was also able to find a picture that sort of shows what it looks like. I say “sort of” because it doesn’t show it exactly the way we do it. Oh, and don’t worry about clicking the link. The picture shows little wooden figurines, not real people.

We enjoy this position because it allows for very deep penetration, complete access to all the other goodies so that they can be fondled with fingers and tongues, plus if the man is a little heavy this position helps keep the pressure of his weight off his wife. It is also easy to use a vibrating egg or other toy while in this position, which adds another element of fun.

Now, how to do it?

First, the woman is laying on her side. Her top leg is either going straight up in the air on a right angle, or she can swing it in front of herself. The man basically straddles her bottom leg so that their genitals are joined in the center, sort of like if you opened two pairs of scissors and joined them in the middle.

That’s basically it. It’s not so fancy, but it is a lot of fun. In fact, now that I’ve written this I think I have major plans for my husband when he gets home. Go try it yourself!

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Your hubby’s sexual past … should you leave it there?

I was reading on another blog just the other day and found this to be a really good read.

Getting over the Jealousy of Your Husband’s Sexual Past

When Mr. Nutmeg and I got married….actually back up … when we started DATING, I confessed my sexual past to him before we even starting seriously dating.   I wanted him to know what he was getting into with me before he ever fell hard in love with me.  (Well, by that time I think it was too late…. he already fell hard the first day we met!)  I was ashamed of my sexual past, but it was a part of me that I didn’t want to keep from him.  That night, he confessed his, too, and we both talked about how it didn’t matter.

The thought came across my mind…. how much do I really want to know?   I say it doesn’t matter, but will it really matter some day if we get married?  Later it became “After we get married, will I really still not care?  When he asks for a certain position, will I wonder if *she* did that for him and that’s why he is asking?  Did *she* do it better? ”

My answer now as a seasoned married woman of over 17 years is “leave the past in the past”  All of these questions will only give Satan a foothold on your marriage bed.  With me, it wasn’t his sexual past, but my own that let Satan in.  My DH is awesome.  He forgave me for my past while we were still DATING.   He has never once gone back and asked me questions or details about past lovers before him.  He understands the true meaning of forgiveness.  Once forgiven, you don’t dwell on it anymore.   I forgave him as well for not waiting for me, but I never forgave myself.

Dear friends, your past is just that…. in the past.   So is his.  The one thing that I tell myself over and over again when Satan tries to throw a doubt into my mind “He didn’t marry HER, he married ME.”   I am the woman who he turns to for his (actually our) sexual pleasure.   I am the one he enjoys intercourse with.  I am the one he enjoys rear entry with…. I am the one he wants oral sex from.   I am the vision inside his mind that gives him extreme desire and that firm erection.   I am the one he daydreams about all day…. When you and your husband became one flesh, you became a new creation.   Whether your DH had former sexual partners, was divorced or even widowed, YOU are a new creation with HIM.

I know it’s not easy.   Here are a few verses for you to remember, though….

2  Corinthians 5:17  “Therefore if anyone is in Christ,]he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come”

2 Corinthians 10:5We are destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ…,”

Mark 10: 6-9  But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female. For this reason a man shall leave his father and motherand the two shall become one flesh; so they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.”

You and your husband are a new creation.  You are one.   Please do not let the evil one tempt you to think on such things.

~ Spicynutmeg~

Remember….

Just taking a quick break in the action to take some time to remember.   On this day eleven years ago, four US airplanes were hijacked and three of those were used as weapons against the United States.   The fourth one never hit its target due to some very heroic actions of the passengers of that plane.   It was speculated that it was headed for the White House.   Please pause a moment to pray for the families who are still grieving lost love ones, and thank God that there weren’t more casualties on that day.   There are so many people who have recounted stories of how they were supposed to be in the Twin Towers that day, but something delayed them or stopped them from going that day.

Americans, pray for our nation.  We are a nation that is quickly forgetting about God and His goodness towards us.   Thank him for the freedoms that we hold true and thank him for your life, to go onward spreading the Good News from the Gospels about Jesus Christ.  We are here because he still has a mission for us.  You commission is not over yet.

Thank you for your prayers, love and support on this day of remembrance.

~Spicynutmeg~

 

POTW: X’s and O’s

This position is really simple and should work for any body type. It provides great visual stimulation to the husband, because he has a full frontal view of his wife, while the wife will have full view of the husband’s upper body.  This position also allows for manual or toy stimulation of the clitoris while the penis gives G-spot stimulation

*The wife lies down on her back, while the husband positions himself between her legs by sitting on his bottom.  His feet will be by her head/shoulder area if his legs remain straight.

*The wife may leave her legs straight, thus the pair of legs forms an X, or she can wrap her legs around her husband, bend her legs with her feet behind his hips or any other variation that comes into the imagination.

*Once in position… have sex!

(See!  I told you it was simple! 🙂 )  (This is the closest picture that I could find.)

It’s a lot of fun to vary the leg positions and switch off between who does the moving.  The husband may want to lean back on his arms while thrusting or hold onto his wife’s ankles.  The wife may ask her husband to sit still as she gyrates her hips.

This is one of our favorite positions because multiple orgasms (O’s) can be achieved because of direct clitoral stimulation.  Have fun getting into your groove with X’s & O’s!!

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Position of the Week (POTW)

I figured it was high time to bring back the Position of the Weeks from Christian Nymphos.  Each Friday, I will bring back a position (in no particular order) that will have a link to the old article and comments on the CN page.   Hope you get some good use and some new ideas!!

~Spicynutmeg ~