Are you one of those women who think that she isn’t capable of having multiple orgasms? Every woman is capable of having them. I’m going to try to explain how they can be achieved and what the different types are. Grab yourself a snack, a drink and a positive attitude and we will be on our way!!!.
Sequential O’s: Having multiple orgasms is a learned response. If you are going to teach yourself first, a bullet or vibe may work better then your fingers. Get nice and comfortable. Think of how you can bring yourself to orgasm without over stimulating your clitoris. In the past an ultra sensitive clitoris has been what has held me back from going for more but with time and retraining of my brain I have learned to get past it. If your husband is a willing participant then having him performing oral or using a toy on you first would be ideal. I wrote some oral tips in my “Pleasing Your Wife” article. Once you do have that first orgasm bask in the afterglow for a minute and slowly begin exploring again. You want to keep that clitoris engorged so don’t bask too long!!!
This second orgasm will take longer to achieve because your body is not use to going for more. You may be sensitive when you first start again but keep working through it just be gentle. After that ultra sensitive time period has passed you can begin using more pressure to bring that second O on. If I am doing this solo I like using a dual stimulator at this point. This allows penetration, possible G spot stimulation and stimulation of my clitoris as well. Here are some examples of dual vibrators. My husband is always willing and eager to help bring the second one along particularly if I brought the first one on solo. We like either oral or the woman on top position that I discussed in my “Cowgirl” article. Obviously you should get into what ever position sends you to ecstasy the easiest. After your second orgasm make note of how long it took you. We are trying to get them as close together as possible. The more you try to achieve multiple o’s the easier it will become. Just like so many other things, practice makes perfect! After sequential orgasms are obtained you are ready for what I like to refer to as “Bunches of O’s” which I will discuss in part two of this segment.
We all know that you need to learn how to crawl before you can walk. If you haven’t been able to have an orgasm then let me first encourage you explore your body and learn how to bring yourself to orgasm. Cumingirl’s article “Touching Yourself” has some great tips. Once you are comfortable enough to have one with your husband or by yourself in a short amount of time then you are ready to try for multiples. Try bringing yourself to orgasm throughout your cycle. Where you are in your cycle does effect how easily you can orgasm. Remember that a positive attitude is everything!