Archive | May 1, 2012

Comfort Zone

There are times when I feel like a turtle…I creep back into my shell and don’t really want to face something new.It’s scary…it’s intimidating….it’s….naughty?

My hubby and I had a great date night one evening awhile back.We went to dinner and to see a movie… nothing out of the ordinary….except that night, I chose to come out of my comfort zone…

It is so easy to stay within your comfort zone.Especially for me, but that night, I did something that I thought was very daring.I dressed up in a dress that I would not normally wear.I am a tomboy, but this dress was rather skimpy according to my terms.While at the restaurant, I excused myself to go to the bathroom, and while there, I removed my thong panty and stuck it in my purse.Later when we left the restaurant and before we got to the theater, I made a plan to reveal to my hubby that I was now commando in the movie.That for me was a major step out of my comfort zone!I stuck the thong in the pocket of his jacket.I believe he really liked it that I was being so daring.We were trying to get into the back row of the theater to “do some business”, but it was packed…we settled for the front row.He had plans, too…he had LUBE in his pocket!Needless to say, during the movie, with his coat over his lap and mine, he fingered me to a couple of orgasms during the movie….with a young couple just a few seats away from us!It was so exhilarating!

On the way home, I gave him a blow job in the car while he was driving…not the safest thing in the world, but it was so much fun.(He drove quite well, too)By the time we got home, we were wishing the sitter could drive herself home!When he got back from taking the sitter home, there was some really good lovin’ that night!

Coming out of your comfort zone can add a lot of spice to your marriage bed.It most certainly did for ours!

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