One of the fondest memories my husband and I have of our honeymoon is waking up in the middle of the night to have sex and then falling back asleep. We do it rarely now, but it’s fun when we do.
The other night I woke up in the early morning and got to feeling especially amorous towards my husband. Oh, I was so close to getting something going. What stopped me? This thought: “He might be annoyed at me waking him up for sex.” Now, in all honesty, you do need to understand from your husband if he would in fact be annoyed at being woken up. Some people really do not like it. It wrecks their ability to function properly the next day. My husband confirmed for me that it is, indeed, OK for me to interrupt his sleep for some middle of the night lovin’ and yet I expect that it wouldn’t be welcomed every night, which is fine by me. After all, I’m not a machine.
These are good positions to consider using for middle of the night sex:
When you have sex during the night, it’s almost dream like because you are so sleepy, but it’s not without passion. The whole reason we are doing it is because we don’t want to wait another moment. The passion is just different. It is slow and rhythmic.
My husband says the best part about it is that there is no guilt about going to sleep right afterwards. Of course, he is mostly teasing because we are both always quick to fall asleep after we have sex.
So once you have talked to your husband about what he thinks about this, the next time you wake up at night reach over and start a little hand job. See how he responds and if it is favorable, go for it!
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This is so great! I can’t tell you how many times my husband & I have had M-O-N sex in the past year! See, we’re in our eary 50’s, and he’s been on T-gel (testosterone) therapy for a couple of years. We now have a standing rule – never waste a hard-on! What’s been happening is that he goes to sleep, sleeps 1 sleep-cycle, then wakes up: with an erection! Well, he is certainly not going to break a rule, so many nights I wake up to him entering me. It’s sleepy, sexy, and fun! And yes, there’s no guilt in falling back to sleep right away.