So much lingerie… so little time! So, what should I get?
One of the easiest ways all of us can spice up our bedroom attire is by purchasing bras & panties. And if you’re anything like me and sometimes deal with buyer’s remorse, you can make yourself feel better by saying, “They’re not only cute and sexy, but practical too.” There are so many styles of bras & undies to choose from, that you should be able to find something to suit your taste… or that of your man! Let’s take a look at some options.
Panties: I would say that the most utilitarian of all styles of underwear would have to be the thong. Why do I say that? Because not only are they sexy, but you don’t have to worry about V.P.L. (visible panty line) underneath clothing. Bikinis, briefs, G-Strings, crotchless, boy shorts and cheeky panties are some other viable alternatives. (Don’t underestimate the power of a pair of cotton bikinis with a ribbed tank top. Sometimes simplicity has the biggest impact!)
Bras: One tip about buying bras is to definitely have a bra fitting from the store in which you would like to make your purchase. There are few things less irritating than wearing an ill fitting bra… and annoying usually doesn’t translate to sexy. Stores from Victoria’s Secret to JC Penney to Lane Bryant offer this free service, so take them up on it and get your “girls” in the right cup! Cleavage enhancing, push-up, open tip, corsets and shelf bras might all be something new that you may want to try.
The possibilities are endless for under garment combinations. You can by sets or mix & match. Pick from satin, cotton, leather, lace, rhinestone embellished… or even edible! Not all bras and panties need to have dual purposes. It’s okay to treat yourself to something ultra seductive with only one thing in mind. By having these versatile pieces, it is by far the easiest way to transition from an evening out to an evening in. There’s no time wasted. Just peel off your outer clothing and let the games begin!
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Funny how so many seem to like lingerie. Not so much with us. We are a mature couple but blessed with no wrinkles and both look very young. The kids are grown and gone. The very best thing for the house is a tight very short black or skintone mini and a see-through or thin top that shows nipples (long sleeve of course to accentuate the hemline!). All commando of course. For him very short denim cutoffs worn commando. Works every time. BTW, with a family business (office), it is great to wear ultra-provocative stuff there when not during business hours. Every man enjoys an ultra sexy secretary, and when you take off your long coat, you will get squeals of delight.
The DH is really starting to like thongs on me. Which is exciting because so far he has trouble expressing what he likes when it comes to the bed. We have no trouble talking about sex he just has trouble expressing how something makes him feel. No trouble with thongs so far. So we went out together and bought some thongs. He is very interested in crotch-less panties too. He is into easy access. haha
A funny thing I have noticed about my DH…maybe it is all/most guys? I have a whole collection of sexy lingerie…most of it purchased or received as gifts before our wedding, some of it purchased for a boudoir photo shoot years ago…but nothing new purchased in YEARS. However, every time I wear something sexy he asks “is that new?” LOL!!! I’m thinking I could have saved a lot of $$$!
I will say, that even with the corsets and lacey things I’ve worn for him, he still much prefers a cotton tank top and cheeky cotton boy shorts. Basically my everyday undergarments! Go figure!
Girl, all my lingerie was a big waste of money… he still says I have too many clothes on. LOL!
You know what, men really have a lot in common – they love you to fulfill their fantasies. If you ask, and he isn’t shy, I’m sure these would be among them. In my opinion, here are four sure fire ways to drive him just where you want him.,..
1) If your kids are grown are out for the evening, give him dinner or watch TV in something really short and tight over a black leather open thong. Be sure to find an excuse to bend over. If that doesn’t work, you will be the first.
2) On a rainy, drizzly or cool evening, when going to the movies, preferably a family film where it isn’t very crowded, wear a knee length rain coat just in case you meet people from your church so you won’t be page one gossip, and underneath wear a real mini and thin blouse or sweater nicely unbuttoned to feature your cleavage with nothing underneath. What will happen will be better than any movie and you can easily cover really fast if need be.
3) When wearing something normal – perhaps just over the knee, hike it up considerably when ready to leave the car. Maneuver your legs to give him the most advantageous view of either a tiny thong or just you! He will for sure be quick to get in the habit of opening and closing the door for you and those stolen shows will make him show his appreciation for you which will be a treat for your eyes!
4) If you have the bod for it, ridiculous bikinis work every time. He can’t see you on a Caribbean beach in his mind’s eye in lingerie, but he sure can on a deserted beach in a nanokiki. What they have on the-bikini.com are extremely extreme but they work (don’t let DH on that site whatever you do). When you next go away overnight, try to choose a room with a balcony. If you wear one of those numbers, especially the one with no fabric, just pearls, out on the balcony with his arm around you looking at city lights, you will fill his mind with memories he will last a lifetime.
Sounds like 99% of men. Shopping together is fun. Another fun thing is to try on dresses in a store that are far more provocative than usual. Let him see you in them for a moment or two when you pop out of the dressing room. It will spice up the day for you and give him some memories. Win-Win!