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Comment on Is Today the most Dangerous day in your marriage? by spicynutmeg

spicynutmeg — Mon, 13 May 2013 21:40:08 +0000

I’ll confess there was a time in my life that I did try really hard not to “expect” anything like other mom’s got on mothers day or it would really be a struggle for me to see another mom with flowers,etc, and be hurt that I didn’t get those, too. There is such a bigger picture here. I know where my worth lies. Not in those flowers that die a few days later… God is where my true worth lies.

Comment on Is Today the most Dangerous day in your marriage? by hiddinsight

hiddinsight — Mon, 13 May 2013 21:28:38 +0000

YES. That is exactly right. It is what I was trying to say in my last post, so it was neat to see you echo some of the same sentiments here. It depends on WHO you look to fill you up. If we are working for God, we cannot be disappointed:

Comment on Why Does He Like Lingerie? by workinprogress

workinprogress — Thu, 09 May 2013 13:52:53 +0000

My husband is also in the “naked preferred” camp. Not that he complains if I wear something sexy, but it comes off pretty quickly. Like hiddinsight, I dress in lingerie for myself. It makes me feel sexy and alluring. I put my lingerie dollars in to my undies and bras. He enjoys seeing me getting ready in the morning in sexy bras and panties.
But, to speak of the dollar aspect of lingerie (the “bedroom wear”), it really doesn’t have to be expensive. I browse the clearance rack at Target for sexy stuff and find some fun things for very little $$. Bras and panties, yes… I spend on, but not “bedroom” clothes. Oh, and I try to make sure my sleepwear collection is pretty and at least a little bit sexy too.

Comment on Throwback Thursday: Birth Control Options by allyboom

allyboom — Wed, 08 May 2013 03:35:46 +0000

Hi! I got married ten days ago and my husband and I are using natural family planning with 12 days of contraception each cycle. We want to use spermicide and condoms but the spermicide applicator syringe (from Gyncol) is really sharp on the edges.

Does anyone have any recommendations for a spermicide applicator that won’t kill the mood and cut me? Anything out there with a more rounded edge? I’m desperate!

Comment on Why Does He Like Lingerie? by spicynutmeg

spicynutmeg — Wed, 08 May 2013 02:15:08 +0000

Normally I don’t post comments from men, but since you are the author, it seems appropriate! I will check out Kate’s post, too!

Comment on Why Does He Like Lingerie? by bradnkate

bradnkate — Tue, 07 May 2013 19:48:21 +0000

Thanks for your post and your link! I appreciate your input and comment. I have met several guys who say “I would rather my wife be naked” too. My observation is that they are still appreciating the messages that I wrote about lingerie “saying” however they are liking them, “in the flesh” so to speak. Even if your guy doesn’t like lingerie, I would suggest having a conversation with him on what ways you are communicating these messages, which he loves and which he would love you to do more, and even which are less important for him! I’ve found that we can never be enough of an expert into our spouses desires! (oh and I encourage guys the same way too!)

Thanks for the link! Be sure to check out Kate’s follow up post about wives “hang-ups” with lingerie:
http://www.onefleshmarriage.com/2013/05/why-women-have-hang-ups-lingerie.html

Comment on Why Does He Like Lingerie? by hiddinsight

hiddinsight — Tue, 07 May 2013 13:02:40 +0000

Nope. Mine is like yours. We both realized when I need to dress up its for me to feel good, not him.

Comment on Throwback Thursdays: Q&A-Yeast Infections and Vaginismus by studsmuffinxox69

studsmuffinxox69 — Thu, 25 Apr 2013 18:20:27 +0000

If you are able to get some probiotic vitamins, try that. It is super good for vaginal health and can prevent yeast infections and fill your body with good bacteria. It is better to not take an antibiotic and let the healthy bacteria your body needs take care of the infection.

Comment on Reader’s question: Shaving by maggiethatcher13

maggiethatcher13 — Wed, 24 Apr 2013 10:53:34 +0000

The other advantage we’ve found is that when I go down on him and he cums, I’m happy to clean up any stray spray! He used to ask me to lick his balls, but there was no way I was doing that while he was forested! Now it’s all smooth, I’m happy to.

Comment on Abstinence AFTER marriage? by Bethany Dotson Reeves

Bethany Dotson Reeves — Wed, 24 Apr 2013 01:29:11 +0000

Apparently this Larknews.com is satire… like the Onion…. so I don’t think this is real. It is designed to poke fun at Christians.