Did I get you?
I was perusing The Generous Wife website again, and I came upon this article on Doing something nice for your hubby every hour on the hour…. This can be a weekend thing, since we usually have more time on the weekend….
The author suggested the following….
Kiss him or flash him.
Give him a small gift (this will take a bit of planning).
Pay him a compliment.
Buy a bag of flavored jelly beans, taste and guess the flavor.
Let’s make a list of other ideas of what we could do for them…. they don’t have to be expensive, as a matter of fact, free is the best! Then let’s try it this weekend….
I found this article on One Flesh Marriage. It is, of course, from a man’s point of view, but sometimes for us ladies, it is good to see things through our hubby’s eyes on occasion instead of our own. Now my hubby is not a lingerie kinda guy. He would much rather there be nothing on at all.
I used to purchase lingerie all the time. My train of thought…”it’s sexy and he will really like it”. When he wasn’t really crazy about it, I thought, “oh, I just bought the wrong one.” and would buy a different one. Instead of listening to him say, “I would rather you be naked”, I was hearing what I wanted to hear. Eventually, I stopped buying it because it was a waste of money. That’s when I started listening to him.
Now on a rare occasion, I will pull out a sheer nighty to wear without panties, just because I like the way it feels and the way it makes me feel.
Is your man a lingerie type of guy?
Okay, I know personally, this is something I need to get better at. I think the Aspie in me finds it really hard to get out of my comfort zone at times with my hubby, and I am trying to break free of this.
Then I read this article that I read from The Marriage Bed’s Facebook page. (Seven Ways to Flirt with Your Husband) I remember trying a few of these a long time ago!! (Yes, I put panties in his tuba case…. when he pulled out a mouthpiece to play it, he pulled out panties….) I also put them in his glove box once, too, I think…. or maybe over his rear view mirror…. well, I definitely don’t want him to get fired, so maybe texts or post it notes it shall be!
It gave me some new ideas on how to flirt with my hubby, but surely we can come up with more than 7. What things do YOU do to flirt with your hubby? I’ve squeezed his bottom in public ;-) and I have also kissed him for no apparent reason other than he just needed kissed. What works for you?