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POTW: Bathtub Bonanza

This is a cozy and intimate position for those of you out there who have bathtubs.  It’s fairly simple but there are a couple things you can do to put a twist on it.

You start off by having the husband and wife both enter the tub.  The husband sits down first, legs outstretched.  The wife straddles him and is able to insert his penis.  At this point both spouses raise their knees up so that their feet are flat on the bottom of the tub.  You are now ready to make love in the tub.

For a little something different, try having you both lock arms with each other under both of your knees!  Thrusting will be similar to rocking into each other.

Pros: Very intimate position that allows for cuddling and kissing.

Cons: You may need a silicone-based lubricant for water sex.  You will be confined to a small space.

POTW: The Hot Seat

This is a nice position that is easy to transition to from rear entry.  The husband will kneel on his knees on the bed or even on the floor.  He will then open his legs up so that his wife has room to move in.  The wife will back into her husband’s lap (also in a kneeling position) and place her feet inside of his.  They penetrate and sit up together.

Another way to get into position is to get into your typical rear entry position with the husband behind his wife, and the wife’s legs inside her husband’s legs. He will then lean over and hug his wife.  They both then sit up together and kneel back onto their feet and knees together.  The wife is able to reach around and hold on to her husband’s rear or reaches above and holds on to her husband’s neck and shoulders.  The husband does the thrusting and has easy access to his wife’s breasts.  Kissing is possible if the wife turns her head around.

Pros: Very easy and comfortable position.  The husband has access to his wife’s breasts and clitoris.

Cons: After a while you may get tired of being on your knees.

POTW: The Dessert Menu

This is a simple oral sex position that could easily be used after a nice, private dinner for two, or anytime you find yourselves with private time in your kitchen.  For this position the wife simply sits on top of the kitchen table and spreads her legs wide, facing her husband.  She can lean back on her hands or elbows.  The husband sits in a chair as he normally would for dinner, except this is dessert time!

The husband is then able to perform cunnilingus on his wife.  You may need to alter this somewhat to fit your kitchen.  This position can be done on a bar or even your kitchen counter.

Pros: The table or bar lifts the wife up so that the husband has easy access.

Cons: The wife will be sitting on a hard surface, which may become uncomfortable after a while.

Tip: Make sure you trade places so that the wife gets her dessert too!

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 Cumingirl

POTW: The Wounded Knee

I call this position The Wounded Knee simply because afterwards your knees may be sore!  To get into position both spouses are going to kneel on their knees facing each other in the floor.  Then, the husband will raise one leg up and place his foot flat on the floor in front of him, as seen in this picture.

The wife will then scoot up to the husband and they will be able to penetrate this way, on their knees.  If the wife needs to, then she can also raise one leg up to help her keep her balance.  She can wrap her hands around her husband’s bottom to help with thrusting.

Pros: This is a perfect face-to-face position for kissing! The husband is also able to caress his wife’s rear and breasts.  What a nice position to try in front of a fire.

Cons: You are sure to get sore knees out of this one!  This position may not be attainable for couples who have a large height difference.

Tip: To help with the knee problem, try putting pillows under you both or using an exercise mat.  You could also try this one on your mattress if you chose to.

POTW: On the Pillows

This is position that has always been a favorite of ours. It’s not extremely difficult, although the man needs to have a good sense of balance and strong arms. We’ve never known what to call it so we just call it the “On The Pillows” position.

You start by stacking up three good-sized pillows in the middle of your bed (you may need 4). Then the wife is going to lay down on her back, but put her bottom up on top of the pillows. The husband may need to help lift her up on top. Now the wife should be lying on her back with her bottom angled up on top of a stack of pillows.

The husband gets on his knees directly in front of her, in between her legs, in a kneeling position. His penis should be close to the height of her vagina. If not, then you may add or take away a pillow as needed.

Then the husband can grab hold of the wife’s ankles, and hold her legs up and apart while entering her. He will then thrust while on his knees. He can move his hands down to hold onto her calves or thighs if he would rather do that. Or, the wife can rest her legs on her husband’s chest/shoulders.

And while the husband is thrusting and keeping the wife’s legs out of the way, the wife’s hands are free to rub her own clitoris.

Pros:
For women who need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, this position is wonderful. You are able to get yourself to orgasm while your husband is inside you at the same time, making it really nice!

This position gives a WONDERFUL view to the husbands out there. He is able to look down and see himself entering his wife, and also see her rubbing herself at the same time.

Cons:
Although you can see each other, your bodies are not really touching except for the privates. You aren’t close enough to kiss or hug or hold each other tight.

This is not a difficult position to do. If you haven’t tried it yet, I encourage you to do so soon, with the lights ON!

Cumingirl

POTW: Tie Me Up Tango

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This position is for all of you who have that daring side. That drive to try new things, even though it may sound odd. In this position, you are not literally tied up, but you are kind of immobile to a certain extent, because your legs are pinned.

For this position, the wife gets into position just like the above picture, except her hands/arms can just relax. You start by just kneeling on the bed, with your feet behind and under you. Then just lay back. You may decide to leave your feet directly underneath your thighs, or you may prefer to move them out slightly.

Then the husband can enter just like most man-on-top positions, however he is comfortable. The wife’s pelvis will be elevated in this position, and her back will also be arched somewhat, putting her breasts in a different position than usual.

Pros: This position is really erotic for the wife who likes to feel slightly out of control during sex. It raises the wife’s pelvis so that clitoral stimulation is easy to achieve.

Cons: You need to be pretty limber for this one ladies. Your thighs may burn during sex and will probably be sore afterwards if you aren’t used to bending your body like this.

Cumingirl

POTW – The Train

Here is another nice oral sex position aimed at giving pleasure to you ladies out there!  I’m not sure why I named it The Train, but it just came to me after visualizing this one in my mind.

For this position the wife gets up on all fours.  The bed works great but she could also use any other furniture that suits their needs.  Once she is on her hands and knees, the husband sits or kneels on the floor behind her and proceeds to give her oral delights!

The wife can lay her upper body down on the bed if she wants to, but keeps her rear up in the air.  That keeps the easy access for her husband.  This position is really vulnerable and makes it easy to spread her vulva and rear cheeks apart.  Couples who participate in rimming will love this one because her entire bottom is there for the taking.

Pros: The husband is able to use his mouth, tongue, and fingers to stimulate his wife in a very easily accessible position.

Cons: Some women may think this position is too vulnerable and may be uncomfortable with sticking their rear in their husband’s face.

Cumingirl