Here we go with another “outercourse” position! Outercourse positions are great for those times when penis-in-vagina intercourse just isn’t possible (menstruation, infection, etc.)
For this position you will need two pieces of comfortable furniture such as the bed, sofa, chair, ottoman, or cushioned stool. The wife will lie back onto something (an ottoman works great) and then put her feet up onto a higher piece of furniture or counter/table. It actually works great if she can bend her knees over the other piece of furniture. The other way to get into position is to have the wife lie down on one narrow but long piece of furniture. Something like a chaise. She will then need to raise her knees up and put her feet flat down.
The husband will stand over his wife, straddling her. He will face her feet. He can then insert his penis in between her lubed thighs and thrust. He will be able to use his hands to compress her thighs together making it tighter for him. He can also thrust right at her vertex so that his penis is rubbing up against her clitoris, giving her pleasure!
Pros: This is a great position to use when PIV isn’t possible!
Cons: It may be difficult to find the furniture needed to make this work.
In Position #24: Shower Sex, Cinnamonsticks described a position where you are facing your husband. In this sequel, I’ll be talking about a position facing away from your husband. Please note that in this position you will need a very sturdy shower rod.
For this position the couple is in the shower. The wife turns to face the side of the tub and the husband stands behind her facing the same way. The wife lifts one leg and puts it up on the side of the tub, and then reaches up and holds on to the shower rod to keep her stabilized. (This will only work if you have a very sturdy shower rod. If your shower rod is a simple tension rod that can fall easily then please do not attempt this.) The husband is able to enter from behind and hold on to his wife’s hips to help with thrusting while she is holding on (not hanging on, there is a difference) to the shower rod above. You can see a picture of this position on Cosmo by clicking here.
Pros: You get to enjoy making love while having hot water cascading down you both!
Cons: Couples with large height differences may have a problem with this position.
The sunny side up position can be used for either oral pleasure and/or intercourse. It is a form of basic missionary position with the husband on top with a little twist. You will be on your back but instead of having to hold your legs in the air or wrapping them around your husband they will be held up with either ankle/thigh restraints or a soft fabric. Your husband may be better off kneeling, rather than lying on top of you, when entering. If you are using a soft fabric be careful that you don’t make the knot too tight. Cutting off circulation would not be a good thing.
The wonderful thing about this position is that you can just lie back and relax. It is great for the husband because he can have a fantastic view without worrying if your legs are getting tired. If you don’t have bedposts to tie to then you can look around your house for an alternative to use. Just make sure it is sturdy and that it doesn’t come down on top of you in the heat of the moment. If you have a dating husband you could even have him put his legs in the restraints while you perform some ‘Advanced Oral Techniques’ on him. 8)
Pros~ Very relaxing position for the wife.
~ Great view for husband.
Con~ Difficult to change positions spontaneously
~ Legs could fall asleep if left this way for an extended amount of time.