You do not need to have a tutu or tiara on hand to attempt this position. Personally, I think it could look very sexy though, especially if you are commando. (Just watch out for the tooling of the tutu because that material is extremely itchy.) This is one of those positions where your husband will be able to lay back and enjoy the show.
Have your husband lie down on his back and then prop him up by placing some pillows behind his back. This should help him tilt his pelvis toward the side of the bed. You will start by standing on the side of the bed facing him. Lift one leg and extend it over your husband, thus the position name, while keeping your other leg straight with your foot flat on the floor for support. I recommend putting whichever leg is closest to your husband’s feet over his body. This way he gets a better view of your most imitate parts and he can help you with stimulation. If you are more coordinated using the other leg then by all means go with whatever works for you. Don’t feel like you need to keep your arms up like a ballerina. Use those hands for balance. If your balance is excellent and you don’t need to use you arms to brace yourself then feel free to use them on your husband. You should have easy assess to his testicles, perineum and (if you can stretch) his rear.
If your supporting leg becomes tired at any point have your husband take over with the thrusting. You want to make sure that whatever surface your husband is lying on is not too high because it is much more difficult for you to get leverage for adequate thrusting. If he is a little lower then you can bend your knee in a squat like movement. When your husband is basking in the afterglow he will most likely look at you as the princess you are and no, it’s not because of your tiara. He will be overcome with the wonderful sensations he felt from his very own personal ballerina.
Pros: ~Very relaxing for the husband.
~Easy clitoral access for the husband or wife.
~If the wife starts to get tired the husband can take over with the movements.
~Easy to control deep or shallow penetration.
~Nice tight fit.
Cons: ~Can be tricky line up genitals, especially if the bed (or whichever surface is high).
~Leg may start aching but just think of those new muscles you are developing. ;)