Archive | June 2013

POTW: Waterlingus

As you can probably tell from the title, this is a cunnilingus position designed with a swimming pool or body of water in mind.  You will need a raft, tube, or noodle.

To begin with, the wife needs to get some type of flotation device.  Noodles work great for this, or some type of small raft.  The couple goes to wherever the ladder or steps are in the pool and the husband leans back or sits on them.  The wife lies back onto her noodle in a floating position, and puts her feet up on the ladder or side of the pool, around her husband’s head.  The husband is now able to pull her into him and give her oral sex.  This one should be pretty easy to picture.

Pros: Another carefree position for the wife.

Cons: Make sure your flotation device keeps you afloat!


Prayer for you

I saw this on The Generous Wife, and thought it was an excellent prayer to pass on.


Thank you for all the women here who desire to build their marriages. I ask that you give them wisdom for their own unique marriage. Help them to understand their husbands, to know their dreams, their desires and their hopes. Please grow love and affection between them and their husbands. Help their love to grow in every way.

In Jesus’ name I ask these things. Amen.

Never hurts to ask for what you need.

Prayer is not overcoming God’s reluctance, but laying hold of His willingness.  Martin Luther

Readers Questions: Hubby losing erection

A reader posed a question to me about a dilemma she is having.  She has recently had an “awakening” and can’t get enough of her hubby.   Recently, he has been losing his erection during intercourse.  This has happened about 4-5 times in the past month.   They are both in their early 30′s, 3 children, and he is an avid cyclist.  She is starting to feel rejected.  Can we help her with the words to communicate to her husband that she loves being intimate with him, but is a bit concerned about him losing his erection.

I know approaching a man about his erections can be a sore subject that some men don’t like to address.   It can make them feel worse.   Any suggestions for this reader?