I’m talking orgasms here!
Okay, my husband has taken up the “She comes first” motto every time we make love. While I appreciate his efforts to make my experience as pleasurable as possible, I still have this dream of us having our orgasms at the same time.
Do I expect it every time? No.
Would it be nice on occasion? Yes.
I don’t know what it is about orgasming together that really gets me going. Honestly, I don’t expect it at all. I know I’ve dreamed of it in the past, but I realize it takes a lot to get me going, let alone us both at the same time.
Like I said, my husband’s main focus and goal is for my sexual pleasure during love making, which is incredible. It doesn’t always happen, but it is nice to know that he is interested in making our LM very pleasurable for me. I just think it would be nice on occasion, it would be incredibly intimate and exhilarating — for him to just let go when he hears my orgasm coming like a freight train….I should ask him if this is just too intimate for him or if I read too many romance novels or watched too many Soap Opera when I was younger or what….
I saw a thread on the Marriage Bed about it, and it seemed like the consensus of people on that thread weren’t really interested in it. Is it just weird for me to still wish he would do it? Should I just let it go and pray that just once, he will let go and I get my desire?
Maybe I should make a poll on this one…. lol. I haven’t made a poll since my old CN days! How do you feel about this topic? Is it important to you? Not important to you? Great if it happens? Never happened at all? Wish it would?